ask for a snub; invite ridicule (/dislike); make oneself unwelcome; court a rebuff ❍ 如果你不规矩的话，你将～。If you behave so badly you will make yourself unwelcome.
自讨没趣
asking for a snub
自讨没趣
ask for a snub;court a rebuff
自讨没趣zì tǎo méi qù
比喻自找难堪。bring contempt on oneself, ask for a snub, ask for a rebuff